On the road again!

I failed to mention this in a post, but Joseph finished his first year of dental school! He can now clean people's teeth. Yes, useless as far as his profession goes (he won't actually be cleaning people's teeth), but at least it is a start. Now that he has a small six-week summer reprieve, we took advantage of the opportunity to take the 8 hour trip up to visit my family in Michigan!

Jake more than adores his grandparents. He is in heaven, which, in his definition means endless running in circles around the house, sugar cereal for breakfast, and more toys that light up and make noise than I could possibly mention in this blog post. Joseph and I are also having a blast. Yesterday, we went up to the lake and took the jet-ski around. The thing that we have enjoyed the most may be the fact that when we come to Michigan it's like we get free baby-sitting. Everyone else loves on Jake so much and wants to play with him so it's a chance for Joseph and I to enjoy some time to ourselves. We've only been here two days and have already gotten some great naps!

Jake has gotten his favorite Uncle Trenton to read him lots of good stories. He loves a good book!

Jake has also been playing the piano with his grandpa. He loves anything that makes noise!

We're going to be spending two weeks here in Michigan. Lots of fun times ahead!

The reader

Jake absolutely loves to read. It's good to finally get use out of all of the books that we have on his shelf. Don't get me wrong, he still enjoys pulling them all off and leaving a big mess for me to clean up later, but at least now he will pull them all off, find a few that he likes, then pull himself and those books onto the rocking chair and read to himself.

The other day Joseph had just given him a bath and he didn't want to be bothered with clothes, so we let him romp around in his diaper for a while. A few minutes later Joseph said, "Angela, come look at this," and this is what we saw:

Ever since I bought this glider rocking chair from someone in the ward, it has been his new favorite spot. Little cutie!!

And, yes, he's still drooling like crazy. All that shiny stuff on his chest is his saliva...unfortunately that's not so cute.

Fun with cousins

Recently we had a surprise visit from some of our favorite people. Uncle Christopher and Aunt Eliza (Joseph's twin brother and his wife) and Aunt Abby (my brother's wife who also happens to be Eliza's sister) were in town because their grandpa was in the hospital unexpectedly. Although they were here under circumstances that were less than desirable, we did take advantage of the fact that they were here and enjoyed a little visit from them. Jake especially enjoyed playing with his cousin Isaac. As you may recall, Isaac is my brother's son that is 6 months younger than Jake, but they are the same size. They enjoyed spending some bathtime together:



Isaac chased Jake around (Jake was a little nervous about this crawling action at first)


Then Jake got on the ground and joined in the fun


Jake is teaching Isaac the joys of calling people on the phone. Isaac will learn soon.

Thanks for visiting us, guys! We love you all and can't wait until we can see you again for longer and under better circumstances.

I'm back...and alive!!

WHEW!!! It's hard to believe, but after months of planning, working, and sweating, girls camp is finally over! It really was an amazing experience. I don't want to bore you with all the details, but let me just tell you a few things:

1. It rained every single day. Hard. As in, wondering if we need to get out of our cabins/tents and into the storm shelters hard. Luckily, no one was hurt and there were only a few tents that were flooded.

2. When I went to girls camp, our stake young women's leader (the lady who was in charge of the young women's program for the area) was also the one who was front and center during girls camp. She was the one that told everyone what to do, where to go, when to do it, etc. That stake camp director was mostly there to help her do the things that she needed to do. That isn't the way that it is here. The stake camp director (me) was in charge of EVERYTHING! I was a little taken aback by how much I really would be in charge of things. Baptism by fire. Totally stressful. But I did it! Big thanks to all those who helped with the craziness that came along with me being in charge!! It'll be better next year, I promise...

3. The girls that came to the camp are absolutely amazing. I cannot tell you how incredible they are. I've said this before, but as you'll read in my previous post, I really thought that maybe the reason that I was put in charge of girls camp was so I could be an example to these girls. Turns out, that's not the way it went at all. They were the examples to me. Truly, I cannot say enough about the incredible young women in our stake. They are lights to the world.

4. This may be a little indulgent, but I just wanted to tell Kelli Ford (if she reads this blog) how much I thought about her at girls camp. She was my leader/example/wonderful friend while I was a girl at camp, and I often thought "How in the world did she do this??" She was the most energetic, fun-loving, spiritual giant, and by the end my week at camp I kept thinking "How did she keep her energy up?" What were your secrets? I need to know for next year (that is, if they keep me around).

And so, these are a few of my experiences at camp. The following are a few pictures of what we did. First is skit night. The theme for Girls Camp was "Walk in the Light" and our skit was a spoof of "These boots are made for walkin'" We changed some of the words to make them more applicable to the theme and just had a blast. We threw in a few Beyonce dance moves too. It was pretty awesome, if I do say so myself.

Example of how amazing these girls are: Instead of complaining about the horrible rain that kept us from going on our hike on time, the girls started doing the limbo instead. In their ponchos. It was beyond awesome.

When it wasn't raining it was SUPER hot, so we kept a lot of popsicles and fudgsicles on hand. Here are a couple of the silly girls.

All in all, it was an incredible experience. I am so grateful to all of the people who held me up when I didn't think that I could go on. I'm grateful to the Lord for giving me this incredible opportunity. I came to love these girls. They are wonderful. I loved it. And after crashing for two days straight, I finally feel like I can get out of bed and be a wife and mother again. Because, really, that is my favorite job of all.

Some thoughts on Girls Camp

I have been a very busy woman lately. Some of you may know that I have been called to be the Stake Girls Camp Director. For those who have no idea what the heck that means, basically I was asked by our church leader to be in charge of the annual girls camp that takes place during the summer. The girls are ages 12-17, and there are about 10 LDS churches in the area that involve their girls in this particular camp. I was asked about 8 months ago to be in charge, and we have been planning and coordinating from the very beginning, and now it's finally almost here. Girls Camp starts on Monday!

I've had a good time planning everything and getting it all together with the rest of my committee, although it has been very stressful at times, too. This week especially has been devoted to getting things ready. Joseph said that now he knows how I feel with him gone all day because I've been so busy with getting things ready for Girls Camp that I haven't been around much. Not much fun, is it sweetheart...sorry, it will all be over next week.

Although I am super excited for everything, I am also a little bit (ok, very) nervous. Here's the deal: I am 24 years old (almost 25...yikes!), which is not much older than many of these girls that are going to be at camp. In fact, I feel like it was just last year that I was going to camp myself. How am I supposed to be a responsible adult when all who know me know how very irresponsible I actually am? How will these girls listen to me when I am barely a few years their senior?

As camp gets closer and closer, I am starting to realize that maybe responsibility doesn't mean being older. Maybe the reason that I am in this calling is not to be "in charge" and have people follow my every order. I'm certainly not the most administratively organized person around so that definitely is not the reason (unless I am supposed to learn that skill...hmmm...)Maybe the reason that I am in this calling is just to be an example to the young women. Maybe that's what responsibility is...just being an example. I am certainly not one to say that I am a perfect example of anything, but I really have tried to be the best that I can be, and of course, fall short far too many times. Maybe I am in this calling to help the girls see that there are people who have been right where they are, and who understand the things they are going through, maybe all too well.

What I do know is that as I have organized this week-long camp for the girls, I have felt a special spirit about it. I hope that as I go to camp next week and carry out all the things that I have been planning for 8 months that the girls will have a wonderful experience and that they will more fully realize their Heavenly Father's love for each of them. After all, this certainly isn't about me. It's about each of the girls individually. I hope it all works out!!

Our big boy!

Jake grows so fast! I feel like almost overnight he has turned into this little boy who understands things that I say, follows (some) directions, and now, sits at the table and uses a spoon eat milk and cereal! He even drinks the milk out of the bowl when he's all done. This may not be a big deal to many non-parents out there, but this is earth shattering over here at the Dougherty household. We have this wonderful little leaf that extends the table but it comes out at a lower height so it is perfect for Jake to eat his food. Now he sits right with us for mealtimes and actually uses a fork and spoon.

Also notice his BLONDE hair! I can't believe how light it's gotten from the sun this summer. It looks like he also has his dad's tan skin tone. He's going to be a heartbreaker!

Phone calls

Jake absolutely loves to talk on the phone. I'm sure that many of the people who read this blog have received random phone calls from Jake (you can usually tell it's Jake if you say "hello? hello?" and there is just silence on the other end...yeah, I thought so!). Usually Jake just takes my cell phone unbeknownst to me and dials random numbers from my contacts list then drops the phone and finds something else that interests him. However, lately Jake has actually been talking to the people that he calls. This afternoon I was in my bedroom and I heard him babbling away. I didn't think anything of it until I heard my mom say "Is that right, Jake? Tell me all about it!" and that's when I realized he had gotten a hold of my phone and called my mom then continued to have a very long conversation with her! He had even pressed the speaker phone button so he could hear better (alright, maybe just a coincedence). I actually wish that I had gotten this on video because he really was having a back and forth conversation with my mom. She would say something then he would respond with "ba la gaga?" and she would answer his question and then he'd say "ya". Sometimes I really think that he understands a lot more than I give him credit for. Cutie!